This is a blog originally written by
Eric Porteous who serves as the Central Regional Director for
Life
Teen, an international Catholic youth ministry with
headquarters in Mesa, Arizona and Atlanta, Georgia.
Some of my original
youth ministry training was with Life Teen and I am a loyal supporter of their
mission and ministry.
You can view the original post
here. (It's exactly the same thing as below).
As a Youth Minister one of the biggest parts of your job description is to
teach teens the faith. Now, if the previous statement came as a shock to you . .
. umm . . . well . . . you may want to chat with your Pastor. If not, then you
know the pressure that comes along with this.
While many well-intentioned and “very wise” parishioners and staff members
think this is easy, you know that, unfortunately, a classroom, a Catechism, and
a chalkboard just don’t grab a teen’s attention like a Happy Meal, a milkshake,
and a blender.
Disgusting icebreakers aside, the pressure to captivate a teenage audience is
great, and nowhere is this more difficult than with a talk or teaching. It’s why
we tell corny jokes, fun stories, or try to draw an analogy between the fear we
get when the toilet water continues to rise and the fear we may have of
evangelizing others. (And yes, I used this analogy in a talk . . . once.)
Getting and keeping a teen’s attention is vital and perhaps our best strategy is
when we don’t even use words at all.
Here are 3 situations when the best way to get a teen’s attention is to use
one of your best tools: the dramatic pause.
- To Drive Home a Point
Situation: You nailed your intro about that squirrel incident. Your audience
is focused, and all eyes are on you as you share about how we need to spend time
in personal prayer so that we don’t go “nuts.”
Response: All you have to do is sell your point one last time. Should you
raise your voice? Should you whisper? Nope. Why even use words? Because you know
that the best way to drive a home a point is to stop . . . and stare at your
audience . . . saying nothing at all.
- When You Forgot What You Were Going to Say
Situation: You’re rolling along giving an inspirational testimony about how
you came to know God when all of a sudden (maybe because you’re distracted by
Timmy in the back who can’t seem to stop twitching) you forgot what you were
going to say next.
Response: The temptation can be to ramble on and on as you try to think of
what you are supposed to say. But, hold on my friends; why not try the dramatic
pause? Your audience will never know. While they stew in the silence pondering
the depths of where you left off, you can gather yourself, reclaim your
thoughts, and move on as if nothing happened.
- For Disciplinary Purposes
Situation: You’re delivering a profound teaching on hypostatic union that is
leaving the teens hungering for more. For some reason Timmy on the back wall
can’t seem to stop text messaging.
Response: While you’d like to hope he’s sharing your talk 160 characters at a
time with all his friends, you know this is highly unlikely. So, just as your
mom did when you used to squeeze your little brother’s hand during the Our
Father, you have no choice but to cue . . . 30-second dramatic pause with
intense stare.
Regardless of what technique you use, I think we can all agree that 1) the
name Timmy has really gotten a bad rap and 2) if we want to get the message of
salvation across to the teens, it’s imperative that we first get their
attention.
Clayton Imoo is husband to Gail and father to sons Sean Isaiah and Jacob
Isaac and daughter Kayla Marie. He has served as the Director of the Office of
Youth and Young Adult Ministry of the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Vancouver
for the past ten years. Learn more about him at http://www.claytonimoo.com or follow him
@claytonimoo
