Wednesday 29 January 2014

Girls Starving for Love: The Risks Defined by Disney (ATTENTION: MOVIE SPOILER)

I finally saw the new Disney animation Frozen. In many ways Frozen is like any other Disney movie. It has the perfect ingredients: the fearless princess, the epic journey, the risk of death, a touch of humor and of course, a love story. Everyone loves a good love story! Check out the Trailer.



Princess Anna is the younger of two girls. As children the two princesses Anna and Elsa, were very close but an accident involving Elsa’s secret powers separated them from the rest of the world and from each other. As a result the girls grew up in seclusion, Princess Elsa hid away in her room because she was afraid and ashamed of her powers while Princess Anna was left confused and alone thinking that Elsa had rejected her.
The younger sister Anna grew up hungry for relationship with her sister and social connection with the surrounding kingdom. One day the castle was opened up to the public. Princess Anna, desperate for love, falls for the first prince she meets whom is actually a predatory prince. This prince tries to take advantage of her desperate for love and affection; he wants to marry then kill her so he can be king. Has this stopped sounding like the perfect Disney story?
The emotionally-starved, desperate-for-love young woman sets the scene for a different, more sinister story happening not on movie screen but in our homes, schools and communities.

Today, the majority of North America’s girls are growing up in a climate that breed’s insecurity, loneliness and a dangerous desperation for love.
Pimps are taking advantage of our girls by grooming them for the purpose of sexual exploitation.

The relationship between a male pimp and his girl(s) is a complex one. The pimp will seek out vulnerable girls who are desperate for love and affection, just like our prince in the movie Frozen. After a girl is selected her future pimp will condition her through a complex process of manipulation, false love and feigned attraction. The pimp (or boyfriend in the mind of the girl) may shower the girl with gifts, physical/emotional affection and promises of a better future. This is the critical stage in establishing the long-term mind control over the girl. This will later pave the way for unquestioned obedience and submission allowing the pimp to coerce her into the sex industry.

Today, the majority of North America’s girls are growing up in a climate that breed’s insecurity, loneliness and a dangerous desperation for love.

Like the storyline of Disney’s Frozen, perhaps sex trafficking seems like a distant tale. Sadly, that couldn’t be further from the truth.  On a daily basis, young women are being forced into the sex industry by boyfriend figures that turn out to be pimps.

Do you know a young person who is vulnerable or perhaps you suspect a girl being recruited for the purposes of sex trafficking? Plan a movie night once Frozen comes out on DVD and use the story to speak to your girls around issues of starving for love.

In future blogs I will share with you for preventative measures, the specific signs and behaviours of a young girl being at risk of prostitution or other abusive relationships.

JANE GALBREATH
Jane is a theology graduate and social work student, living in Saskatchewan. She spends her summers leading international youth mission teams. She has is passionate about empowering young women to serve God particularly young women struggling with trauma and mental health issues. Jane has been a victim of sexual violence so she knows the heartache, shame, strength and courage it takes to face being a victim. Jane is a blogger and advocate for other females who have been victims of sexual violence because she knows that it is possible to not only survive but to come out the other side strong. After many years of healing Jane comes to you from that place! For more information and to visit Jane’s blog click here http://hopeforherblog.wordpress.com/about/


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